DO NICE GUYS REALLY FINISH LAST OR IS THAT NICE CRAP A FRONT TO GET WHAT THEY WANT?

I have been speaking and pondering on "The Nice Guy"/ “The Nice Girl” and I have a strong opinion on the matter, now I’m a woman so clearly I will be addressing this topic from a females perspective but believe me guys I got your backs also. “The Nice Guy” / “The Nice Girl” my ass...if he's a Real "Nice Guy" “Good Dude”....he's taken by a good woman (congrats) but if he claims to be a “Good Dude” “The Nice Guy” but he is not spending any one on one, get to know you time...if his WORDS don't match his ACTIONS...if he is showing you that his comforts, friends, life as it is is more important than you...HE IS NOT A NICE GUY...he's just a ass covered in a candy shell...he's sweet until you lick the sugar off...LOL... “Nice Guys” are nice people that are available and look to give of themselves freely...they won't fit you in their lives, they make you a center piece so that your lovingly displayed as part of them...not a extra piece that he's fitting in his world. “When I was born I was the center piece in my family’s life it stands to reason when I choose to join my mind body and spirit with someone we will create a beautiful center piece together” All I'm saying ladies and gentlemen is don't sell out for just the candy coated cover you deserve all of his or her sweetness.....YUM...(-;

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